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Self Management

  • I am the creator of my thought and my feelings.
  • It is my first responsibility to keep my self happy .
  • After every hour make rest and feel happy One Minute.

Self Respect

  • Koi aapke sath bura kare par aap uske sath ache rahe , yehi aapka self respect he.

Relations

  • Relation with self
  • Thoughts moves either of past or future , we should remain in present and enjoy the present ,this will give you proper listening then relations will better.
  • To experience peace , love ,happiness , if you will give happiness it will flow to you.
  • -ivity create kar rahe he to –viity hi milegi.
  • Relationship is never for getting .
  • How I c u ?
  • When I seat with you I feel good , I am creating energy and transmitting and getting my self ,I feel good.
  • Relationship means giving .
  • We think what are we getting out of relationship .
  • Pain ,peace love sab hum create karte he
  • Relation ->perception mein depend karta he àperception depend on thoughts..
  • Judgemental nahi hona he ..
  • Acceptance doesn’t mean I agree with you
  • If I say that it is wrong if I agree that u r different

General

  • Make relation with your soul. Which is peaceful, truthful, and happy being.
  • Ajar amar avinashi he .
  • Mind is only able to explain man.
  • In morning fill soul with good thoughts.
  • Ingredients word +action->>hurt, happiness
  • Energy first field
  • Emotional health <->physical health
  • Emotional health->care àimunity
  • Reaction chup rehna ->> no creation of negative energy
  • Mein chup rahoon ki mein change ho jaoon , anger create nahi karna he
  • Cabbard khul gaya , bahut sarapuranan bol dete he , rakhte samay dhyan rakho ,
  • Kisi situation mein dard ho gaya to maine cabbard mein rakh diya , meri responsibility he ki mujhe apni peace banana he ..
  • Cabbard mein rakhna hi nahi he ..
  • I don’t know how to heal my self ..
  • Frustration unki apni he par who mere pe nikal rahe he mujhe dhyan rakhna he ki mujhe shant rahna he , mujhe hurt nahi hona he …
  • Storm build up ready à take care of your self ..
  • Stop all thought and practice positive thoughts
  • Gadi ke brake check karte he , fast chalti he  to check karte he , accident time mein check karte he to , shayad na lage toh ..
  • I am positive being , I am peaceful powerful being, muje apna dhyan rakhna he ..
  • Fir to kisi aur ki madad bhi kar sakunga ..
  • You have to be that person (stop situation) because we love your self ..
  • Aeroplane mein oxygen mask , sabse phelee apne aapko lagana he ..
  • Every scene has the energy..
  • Dialogue agar aap stable honge to apni bahut sari energy bacha lenge , toh bahut kaam ayengi (be happy ,peaceful , positive)
  • Situation ko handle karo ..

HappyNess Index:

  • Graph (should not depend on situations )
  • Mind programming à happiness
  • Equation of life set nahi he ..
  • My life depend on situation on people , how healthy it is ?
  • My resistance power is less that’s why I get effected ..
  • She is not happy than how I can be happy..
  • People response reactions are very un predictable..
  • I was not prepared for the kind of weather , we need preparation for reactions and situations .
  • Mera inpredictable … handle your response …
  • Un predictable behavior he unka toh , self care , happiness index by materialistic things aapko comfort deti he , happiness nahi de sakti he ..
  • Happiness à jo aap thought create karte ho e.g.
  • Sadi achi he , sadi thik he , then thought create hota he , by that thought we create feeling by that feeling we create happiness ..
  • Means materialistic things aapko comfort de sakti he happiness nahi .. happiness aap khud create karte ho ..
  • Thought is structured , feeling is not structured ,
  • My happiness depened on the others , kya bolenge that is why I get bad feeling and I feel low.
  • Mein vo shakti hoon joh sara din ghar ka office ka har kaam karta he …
  • Meri quality kya he.?
  • I am powerful being , master of situation, master of state of mind.
  • Creator of my thoughts ,irrespective of situation I will create positive thoughts.
  • Mere sath koi kaisa vyavahar kare mera thoughts mein positive rakhoonga…
  • Mera sankalp sudh aur positive honga.
  • Engergy outàenergy in ..
  • Not take care of what is come in ..

Self abuse

  • Self implementing pain , emotional abuse
  • Hum apne aap ko kehte he ki unhone aisa kaha
  • Apne sath relation hi nahi he ..
  • Koi kehta he to hum use sach man lete he ..or apne aap ko blame karta hoon. Ya karti hoon..

Happiness

  • Naukar mere samne kaise bol gaya?
  • I am not responsible for others happiness..
  • Truth is comfortable
  • Truth is feel peaceful
  • Happiness is natural ..
  • Happiness is unconditional..
  • Happiness is my creations..
  • Songs ,serials,may be ciggarette body ki addiction hoti he
  • Stimulate aayega , emotions create honge, harmons create honge..
    • Silent (stillness mind) hota he, no thoughts
    • Judgemental hone lagte he (serial mein match mein ) kya bola (stillness gone)
    • Charchter mein ghus jate he ,vo jo karte he  vo karte he
    • Then your creativity is over
    • Fully involve
    • Thoughts creation power gone
    • Anger pain hurt àclarity of thoughts
    • Alaram after every hour is important , it will keep you positive thoughts..
    • Hum man ko clear instruction nahi dete he , mann ko disciplane karo(right way of thinking)
    • Thoughtsàjob mein maja nahi hai (saale chutiye he),mba karna he (khushboo ke bhi natak he),mba ke baad bhi job me set haunga ya nahi…
    • Happiness àexcitement

Detach Observation

  • Sun rahe he , dekh rahe he , detach he , ab apne aap se pucho ki aapki responsibilty kya he
  • Subah apne upar kaam karte he , shaam ko for world ,peace donate ..
  • IIIrd Sunday of month :meditation of world peace ..
  • Rozmara ki bataon se budhi ko hatake apne upar lete he .
  • I am the powerful being, sankalp create karta he ..joh peace create karta he , peace is my nature ,peace ki vibration ki shakti mujhse nikal ke saare vishwa tak pahuchti he , its like laser beam , vishwa ki ek ek aatma tak pahuchti he ..

Crisis

  • Soul power have become less that’s why we are not able to deal.
  • Small thing we make big thing. Sankalp bahut he hamare.
  • Aatma ka dard-àparmatma se samandh (pyar)
  • Sarir ka dard àdetachment se
  • Sanskar gun sath le jane he :journey of life

Professional cirisàgreed àsimplify

  • Isme spiritual power leke stable bano. Aur bhi stable ho jaonge.

Health Crisis

  • Dawa 5%, dua 45%, yog bandh 50%

Financial Crisis

  • Thoughts create (chinta ke )
  • Different log different tarike se sochte he …
  • Financial low iss situation mein bhi mujhe apna dhyan rakhna he aur apne ghar walo ka bhi dhyan rakhna he …
  • Thoughtsàfeeling àattitueàactionàhabit àpersonality
  • Market down he  business down he , sab kuch down he ..but when self is down then everything will get down..
  • Mann ka dhyan nahi rakha toh aur nuksan ho jayega , dhan ka toh hua hi he,mann ka bhi ho jayega..
  • Mann par , rishton par effect padega , who impact vapas nahi aayega , job vapas aa jayega…
  • In these situation some people parivar se dur ho gaye , aur koi najdik aa gaye….
  • Mann ka kaam hamesh khush rehna he , situation favourable he ya nahi ..
  • Every morning start talking to your self , if job of your brother goes , how will you talk to them,same way you talk to your self.
  • We get very harsh with our self in un favourable situations …
  • Stable rehna he..
  • Because I am powerful being ..
  • Get up in morning and seat with yourself two minute of talking to your self …
  • Two shopkeeper , both  running loss,
  • One create positive thoughts and one negative ..
  • If you as a client got to shopkeeper who as honesty power and energy ..
  • People will look for your emotional strength…

Thoughts

  • Thought process change karna he..
  • Logo se hatao mann ko dekho.. thoughts ko dekho.., this is my creation , dhokha , taklif mili who sab meri creations he , I choose to live in pain ..
  • I liberate my self from pain..
  • No one has power to hurt me , peace is my nature , this is creation of peace..
  • Stable rehna hein critical situations mein bhi ..
  • Happiness ß–>anger  , energy of anger goes out , it again come in ..
  • Mein sochta hoon mera divorce hoga , k hamesh half mind hi rahegi.., mein sochta k jyada husayari karegi, mere control ke bahar ho jayegi..
  •  40,000/day mostly are waste and negative thoughts.
  • Watch slowdown
  • Thoughts not stable àstable contented..
  • Glass bhara hua he , khali nahi hone dena he ..
  • Excitement hight stage =fear low stage
  • Both are bad you don’t be normal..
  • React ,response should be stable
  • Just one day I will not get unstable, I will be stable …
  • Thoughts ko conscious se create karne ka prayas karo ..
  • I creator of every thought , I have choice
  • I will be stable if I stable situation change
  • The person jo disturb kar raha he ,apne aap ko dekhe , unke bol ka prabhav mere man par prabhav nahi dal sakte.. I am the powerful being..
  • Whenever you react thinkthat I am responsible..
  • Action and reaction depends on information ,perception , Beilief , it affect the personality, we are blaming our  past,
  • Unconscious  level pe jo bhara hua he , who conscious pe lana hoga ..usse change karna hoga…
  • Duniya achi nahi he rishte ache nahi he , self responsibility is to change,
  • Let it go just like that .
  • Humein pata nahi hota ki humne dard ko pakda hua he , I am the creator of my thought and feeling , is thought ko bar bar yad karke
  • Dard will go deep, aisa koi belief he jo dard ke liye jimmadar he , toh check karo..
  • E.g. no pain no gain.. swasthya ka bata bimar hone pe chalta he ..
  • Dard se nikalne ka rasta dhundna he ..
  • Gyan in ànakaratmak baatein out ..
  • No person or event is responsible for my happiness ..
  • Khush reh kar goal ko achieve karna he ..
  • Happiness Is journey not destination..
  • Dependancy àpromotion , children marks ., husband appreciation .,thoughts create karte he ..
  • Mba karke job laga jaunga , ya business khul jayega , ya man pasand kaam mil jayega tab khush ho jaunga ,,thoughts create nahi karna he …
  • Humari sthati , happiness or pain ke liye koi jimmadar nahi he aur nahi hum kisi ki khushi or pain ke liye jimmadar nahi he ..
  • Even god can’t free me from my pain only I can free it by using knowledge , god can give powers for freeing knowledge ,
  • God mujhe power dena apne dard ko dur karne ki
  • That is why said god help them who help them selves..
  • Apni madad kaise karu.: peace love , happiness create karni he , pain create nahi karna he , understand , I am the creator of happiness , I am the destroyer of pain…
  • Practically , wake up with right thoughts , constantly everything will happen with stability ..
  • Children don’t listen..
  • Judgmental hone se humari bahut sakti nasht ho jati he ..
  • Baki saktiyon ka dhyan rakhte he :water electricity..
  • Khushi he usko waste nahi karna he ..
  • Criticise: 1-1 wastage of energy..
  • Judgemental à frustration
  • So uh loose your creativity..
  • Mere liye kya sahi he …
  • Expectation : not happen -> happiness index downà we got let down (hurt ,anger)
  • Mom and khushbu ki expectation he ki mein job karu , meri icha he ki mein mba karu , business karu..
  • Emotions create kari he sankalp ko thoughts feeling..
  • Stimulus àresponse (freedom to choose response) diff diff..
  • Couple àe.g. death 2 year old child
  • Mother accept kar liya
  • Father accept nahi kiya..
  • Response (boss to employee): 5min ok, 5 hour ok ,5 days ok..
  • Every body blame à BOSS
  • Put pain is created by him self because ur the creator ..
  • Past,present , future
  • We are already go into future thing
  • Meditation to control over thoughts, by thinking past and futurewhich is not in our control.
  • Mann disturb hoga,
  • Mann present mein hoga to stable hoga..
  • Past exp. Se sikhte he beilieif system
  • Unpleasant Past : choti baat , badi baat
  • I am revising whole past scene and creating emotions anger , hate..
  • We despoil our stabiility and deplite our energy..
  • We don’t learn , we actually despoiling my present my thoughts .
  • How I should respond?
  • Bring the focus to my self ..
  • Past create make past à present it will effect the future.
  • Forget the past totally then it will not be repeated..
  • If we talk about the past again, actually it is not the past , it will become present
  • My responsibility (destroy my pain àpast present)
  • Depth of my pain
  • Meditaions: bahut kuch pakad rakha tha situations, logo ka vyavahaar ,unke dwara diya dard bar bar smartiya me aata tha
  • Iss shan pratigya kara hun ki mein apne aap ko dard nahi deaounga, mere andar shakti he ,dard mujhe aur koi nahi deta mein khud create karta hoon,
  • Aaj apne aap ko yaad dilaye , apne mann ki sthathi hein humare hath mein hain , jo ab tak pakad raha tha ki unhone dard nahi diya , Let go
  • Om shanti: khud hi delete karna he ..
  • Who am I ?
  • I am the energy that make relationship and play roles..
  • Values and reasons ..
  • Future:
  • Fear of loosing job , property , family..
  • Dreaming personality , : if we go in future dream , we don’t live in present , so we waste our time and again we edeate the gain , create happiness every time,
  • Thoughts of series ,
  • Escaping from present by creating dreams ,
  • Create the thoughts of dreams : wastage of energy ..
  • worrying personality , Fear live in fear ,
  • Present go in pain , want to achieve something
  • We want happiness every time with stability
  • Happiness depends on the achievement (want to achieve something )
  • Love àdesire of love Time
  • Not to dream , live in present ..
  • Thoughts creates destiny..
  • Future à out of control thought
  • Fear ful, anticipating , waseful,
  • Goal àwithout getting depend on expectaionsàlive in present
  • Best moment à belief every thing will be fine …
  • Obstruction à situation
  • Create the thought , what actually in the way is actually the way..
  • E.g. Road driver à obstacle àopportunity
  • Nothing happens to me , it happens for me ..
  • Situations demands response..
  • Success is feeling beautiful , light, & stable , exchange of right energy..
  • I am already complete and no one can hurt me …
  • 1. Due to threat future we stop exchanging energy..
  • 2.Due to judgmental , bolne se phele hi idea conceive kar lete hein..
  • 3. Present behaviour ..

Depends on informations.

  • In morning absorption of power hightest ..
  • News paper – fear violence –ive in morning..
  • Word fit in consciousness ,leave with you whole day…
  • Sub conscious layer activated hein ,..
  • In night start reading something positive .. read it loudly ,… for removing thoughts…
  • Past

Past experience

  • If any past experience hain to clean it .., scan disk every day past experience , if you don’t scan disk then it will create pain again and again..
  • For stability padhe sune positive ..

Belief System..

  • Enviornment, learning , sanskar, it is like operating system..
  • Life is game ., kabhi khushi kabhi ghum,
  •  Manyatao ke aadhar par jeevan chalta he ..
  • Hum anubhav ko dekhte he , agar anubhav sahi nahi he to manyata ko check karo ..
  • Belief àthoughtsàdestiny..
  • Sab ka acha hoga..

Responsibility

Kam ,kahana , sona

  • Apne man ke prati responsibility
  • Man ki stati ko sahi rakhna meri responsibility he .
  • To feel happy ,peaceful, loveful.
  • Bacho ke prati :unko emotionally strong banana he .
  • Response to the situation.
  • In Any choice you make it is your responsibility to be happy in that choice.
  • Know that you are wrong:e.g. bribing to TT in train  , actually we don’t know that we are making the wrong choice e.g. moving to jodhpur from Bombay when khushboo is pregrnant.
  • Be Happy , be loveful(is to do),be peaceful, no self abuse
  • Hum responsibility doing ki to karte he par responsibility of being ko nahi nibha pate hain ,vo nibhani he …
  • Check your thoughts and feeling ,when you are gloomy.
  • Being is the core part , if being is better then doing will automatically better.
  • Ability to response to situation usspe work karna he , vo hi nahi he ..
  • Thoughts ki quality ko mein decide karta hun..
  • Response ko mujhe choose karna he..
  • Self responsibility ko cultivate karne ke liye ..
  • Ur the creator of feeling action perception,so reacting , stop creating feeling (any kind of irritation)
  • Acceptance (I am not taking my responsibility..)
  • Apne sath responsible rehna he , mujhe ache thoughts create karne he , achi feeling create karni he ..
  • To create peace , happiness and love in any situation,
  • By watching movies we create pain..
  • Self Awareness: what I have created that m not happy alone , no one is talking, I should be comfortable with the change,
  • Morning positive thougths and 1 hour positive thougths are very important..
  • My responsibility is to destroy the pain and create peace happiness and love.
  • If you say “I have no choice” your life goes from your hand.
  • Galti se bhi apne aap ko ye to nahi keh rahe ho ki I have no choice , yeh kehna jeevan ko khali kar deta he (hope less ) exercise your choice..
  • Choiceà nirnaya ki responsibility (self responsibilty rakhna he ..)
  • Honesty , work , lie , truth speak , corruption,
  • Self disciplane à values will make you stronger
  • Repurcursion will come to you ,
  • Choice ko bhi manage karna he ..

Manage all:

  1. Responsi bility: self
  2. Relationships :giving
  3. Roles
  4. Resources

Purpose and values

Goal and purpose.

  • My purpose of life is being not doing
  • Purpose is to create peace ,happiness and peace and love.
  • I am the peaceful soul
  • Relationships ko avoid kar rahae he , what is the haal of relationship with self.

Meditation:

Yeh jo mera hath he ,ankhe he by which I do work ,

  • who am I ?
  • where am I ?
  • why I am here ?
  • to feel love in every interaction ,
  • I am happy being, became the purpose of my life ,
  • Apne aap ko dekho mein aisa kyun hoon mein to ek shakti shali aatma hoon, fir shant , peaceful soul hoon, karm mujhe pakde hue he muje unse chutkara pana he ..
  • Healing , see your thoughts…
  • Anger pain rejection , -ve hurt.
  • Slow down karo gadi ko ..
  • Thougth right , feeling right , action right..
  • Positive thinking , meditaion is necessary to see your self ..
  • Mediation is to heal , is to do with soul (pranayam is to body)
  • Mantra jap karte he to naye sankalp nahi bante he ..
  • Mediationàattitude change..
  • Raj yoga mediation (swayam par raj karna ..)
  • Aatma ko charge karna heàbattery charge ànot by battery,by power source..
  • Meditaion is the relations
  • Ego àattachmeent to wrong imageor wrong beilief ..
  • About my self
  • Loose my identity àlost my image
  • Attachment àresisitance àfear (kahin ye choot na jaye)àpain
  • Let go attachment..
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Positive thinking

  • Information ko filter kar lena he ..
  • Just like dict for mind and mann..
  • Mind is hard disk space…
  • Don’t put unnecessary files..
  • Don’t take so much information..
  • We are taking in name of entertainment not for learning..
  • Khana khate jate he , jitna khana hota he , utna hi khate he ..
  • Special interaction mein filtering jaruri he ..
  • Don’t ask about others life , it will disturb your life..
  • If take light weight diet is better , if we take heavy diet..
  • Newspaper tv me vo hi dekhe jo kaam ka he
  • Subah absorption power jyada hoti hein
  • Muje positive chaiye to positive dalo , negative mat dalo.
  • Subah bhagwan ka naam lena best hein, parmatma ke maha vakya suno
  • Lost effort karke positive bharo
  • Aap kalyankari baap ke kalyan kari bache hein ,

Self Management

  • Sankalp always start with thoughts which leat to feeling and attitutude according to situations and action according to attitude..(we see only action..) and leads  to destiny
  • My destiny is in my hand.. no one teach us how to think..
  • Situation , influences (job insecurirty ), enviornmnet media , will I able to create positive thoughts..
  • Self ko manage karna he .. we go in pain and then try to manage..
  • Bache ne kuch kar diya , I go out of control, then I try to control him
  • Practice detach observation, sakshi darshan, managing my self,
  • Detachment pause and step back, measure response..

Roles:

  • Iss srasti natak rang manchpar hum sab actor apna role karte he ..
  • Aaj sara din mujhe ek smrati rakhni he mein actor hun , yeh mera role he , mujhe apna 100% dena he  powerful being if any situation come..
  • I am the master of the situation,
  • Situation choti hoti jati he..
  • I am the powerful being..
  • Paristhati meri rachna he ..
  • Scene àyou are going to stable
  • You are the powerful being..
  • Thoughts àdestiny
  • Start the day with positive..
  • After every hour break..
  • I am powerful being..

Fear

  • Situation àResponse (we normally Resist)
  • Fear deep routed..
  • Change.. fear of loose..
  • Current situation __authority toh nahi hogi…
  • Fear of loosing people,power,Prestige, Personality, Paisa..
  • Change ko resist(-ive energy) karte he
  • 1st accept yeh hona he..
  • E.g. river flowing Damn build create pressure..
  • I am the creator have choice..
  • How I accept why I accept
  • E.g. judo wresling ,1.embrace , 2. Assess power momentum..
  • E.g. two person fighting verbally if resist than hate will get created..
  • Full stop is acceptance..
  • Flow with river(situations), neither stop the river..

Barrier

  • Know barrier
  • Who created the barrier
  • Remove the barrier
  • We feel disconnected in relationships is due to myself, it is due to past, present, future , hurt..
  • Past àjudgemental
  • Future àthreat
  • We created the thoughts ..
  • Self management à relations
  • Past experience àbelief à Perception
  • Where is my relationship
  • Energy throw , it will get back..
  • When we met anyone create thought that he is pure soul , everything is in my control..
  • Belief system as obstacle..:
  • e.g. 1. Fish in fish aquarium with glass and food
  • 2. elephant tied with rope in circus
  • I am body..
  • One choice you always have that how to feel (exercise it )
  • One day silent day
  • Morning mein silent mein thoughts check karo..
  • Check your attachmentàfearàresistanceàhurt pain..(insecurity)
  • Who am I ?
  • I am beautiful, complete , pure
  • My nature is peace , happiness , love, power , purity
  • Responsibility :khush rehna , khushi dusro ko transmit karna…
  • Attachmentàfear àresistanceàhurt
  • Position let go ur attachment
  • Profession identity ko hi apna
  • Lot of attachement he à object peoples , positions
  • Use these attachement without attaching to them..
  • My happiness is not dependent , I am still complete..
  • I am attach to my idea(beilief) that I will be successfulàhurt àvalue
  • Kisi ne mujhe hurt kiya to uske piche kya fear tha pehchanana he ..
  • E.g  circus: we have to let go one thing and catch another thing..
  • Comfortable ve he , physically , internally sakalpo ko dekhe..
  • What thought crossing my mind..
  • Aane do , no pressure , natural..
  • Thoughts ki speed slow hogi…
  • Aaj sham ki ,kal ki, agale saal ki , imp he
  • Abhi kaunsi imp he , that slow ho jati he ..
  • I am peaceful being , shakti he , creation he , mera swabhav he ..
  • 1 minute meditation,
  • I am master of body , conscious energy, creator of thought feeling, beautiful being ,powerful being, pure, independent absolute powerful…
  • Stress àPressure(Inner Strength)àStress àDepression
  • Mujhe strong banana he situation se change nahi hona he
  • Self management karna he ..
  • Mentally relax à no fear (no pain)à no attachment
  • Emotional stability createkarni he bacho mein
  • Being in present à meditation help
  • Energy fix àenergy leak ho jati he ..
  • Don’t creat fear thoughts
  • Coping skill (with pressure no one teach)
  • Releations based on thoughts is  feeling & relation it from soul to soul..

Roles

  • Don’t write other ones script,don’t waste ur energy in writing others script
  • Let every one be
  • Hum sare din bahuton ki script likhte he , kis usse aisa kehna chaiye tha , usse aisa karna chaiye tha,
  • Parmatma, place :shanti dham , mukti dham, swarg
  • Who is he ? ocean of love, purityàsign ,source of truth
  • Take power ,peace , purity
  • Mann aur budhi ke dwara pita ke paas ,naam prof. role
  • I am conscious power , shinning in center of forhead..
  • Chamakta sitara conscious,
  • Mein sarir ko chalati, aatama se sambandh anubhav,
  • Sakti, pure sole, dignity my nature
  • I c my self…
  • Masking god to change situation
  • These are due to karma
  • Mein iss sarir ke bahar , chand ko cross kar raha hoon, apne ghar pe aake pahucha hoon,ghar ko yaad karti thi, pita ko yaad karti thi,aaj din tak mein dhund raha tha,pavitrata ki kirane , saktiyan, mein unko apne sath bhar rahi hoon,

Anger

  • Irritation : jab time pe kaam nahi hota
  • Frustration : jab koi apne hisab se kaam nahi kare..
  • Raj(hightest power) yog (rista connection)
  • Role aaj he kal nahi , actor ka dhyan de ..
  • We are playing role , role can be finish tommorrow
  • Its just a game , drama,
  • Its just a scene…
  • Judgemental hone se bar –bar bahut energy waste hoti he ..aur ye bahut hi deep routed sanskar he ..
  • Sensitivity is necessary for creativiity , make balance with detachment..
  • Resources : mein ananad swaroop aatma hoon, mein shant swaroop aatma hoon, mein sakti swaroop aatma hoon.
  • Stimulus se creativity kam hoti he ..
  • Taking toward addiction àcreating perception(wrong )thought that I will be happy after stimulus.
  • Addiction will create fear ..
  • Use physical resources in right channel,
  • 1.physical energy, 2. Mental energy 3. Spirtual energy..
  • Dr. emotto effect of thoughts on water,
  • Dard mein bhojan nahi bannan he ..
  • Gandi coding ki hui hoti he to kaam karne me maja nahi aata he ,  kam maje ke liye nahi , countiniuity disciplane aur paise ke liye karna he ..
  • Impulseà mind and intellect stop working (ciggarette)
  • I have created the program of response
  • Coding system, beilief system,
  • Beilief & perception(true self got hidden)àthoughts and feeling à action àpersonality
  • Silence mein jake beilief perception ko change karna he , root se change karna he
  • Awakening the ruler within
  • Pahad jaisi baat ko rai banani he ..
  • Patience peace love..
  • Negaive, positive , weak and waste thoughts..
  • Ruling power, controling power
  • Hath ,paon àsthool (corporeal) saktiya (controlling power he )
  • Mann, mind ,sanskar àsuksham(subtle) saktiya  (controlling power  àcheck control ho usko swarajya adhikari kehlata he )
  • What to change , how to change..
  • Time , money ,resources,
  • When we loose control, 1st feeling of powerless,
  • Daily sharing with god..
  • Wrong belief ki gussa karna jaruri he ..
  • Mujhe acha nahi lagta ki mere se koi gussa hoke kaam karvaye,toh mujhe dusro ka bhi dhyan rakhna chaiye..
  • Leader vo jo stable rahe ..
  • Priority logo ko rakhta he kaam ko nahi chae wo parivar ho ya corporate..
  • Anger and authority:
  • I can be authoritative without anger..
  • Bacho ke sath quality time spend kare na ki physical object de
  • We have fixed our response on situations , we are not innovative..
  • I have choice that I create anger or not
  • Realisationàaccept kar lenge ki mere kaam ki chiz nahi he ..

Self esteem:

  • Parmatma he aur wo hame sikha raha he
  • This journey we have to complete,then why we don’t make it happily,
  • Relationshipàgiving
  • Start working on your self ..
  • When we get achievement, we get the feeling of achievement ,satisfaction..
  • Happiness àinner stability
  • Happiness he usse recognize , awareness ,maintain karna he ..
  • Sanskar àmannàsthool indriya..
  • My original nature is..
  •  peace , that’s why I need peace
  • One thoughts creates our destiny
  • Sunnana , padna, dekhna , kya kya nahi..
  • This is creating my personality àdestination
  • Past exp. Information , belief system(create the thoughts)àdestiny
  • Stress=pressure/resilience(inner strength)
  • Its not what you said , its what I create by what you have done..
  • I am the creator..
  • Response is not created by stimulus (BOSS)
  • Stimulus à(freedom to choose response) response
  • Tension is not natural
  • Self responsibility is to create peace happiness and love.
  • My worth is not dependent on my package..
  • What are we give to others , first we giving to ourself..
  • E.g. anger , hate , love , peace..
  • Catch thought àchange thoughtàself esteem will be higher ..
  • Self respect comes when we respect others …
  • Don’t think that mujhe anger create nahi karna ,jealous nahi create karni he ,-ve thoughts create nahi karnae he , sahi nahi he ..
  • Soul conscious ho jao..
  • I am peaceful soul…
  • Every energy we create for some one is transmitted to him, so create the positive energy, don’t create negative energy..
  • Situation is anything solution is stability..
  • E.g. child in other country say that everything is fine ..
  • Parent child relationships ..
  • Each thought is creating relationship
  • Hum bhi judgemental ho rahe he
  • Humne phone to ek baar kiya par bar bar thought create karte he ki uske paas time nahi he …
  • I am not changing , I am choosing the response..
  • Dard mein ho yadi uss samay usse kuch bhi nahi samjana chaiye , jab wohh normal ho tab samjana chaiye..
  • Communication build up karna hoga , right flow of energy…
  • Judgemental nahi hona he (criticism)
  • Pyar se bharpur kar le (meditation)
  • Argument se child par effect padta he aur usse uski complete life ,personality effect padti he ..
  • Child learn from us way to live
  • On negative place enviornment –vity creates automatically
  • If you are having negative enviornment in your house it imply that your child will be automatically weak..
  • Bache ko achi parvarish , educaiton life dena chate he , par achi emotional strength dena bhi jaruri he .
  • Bacho ko kamjor na samje unhe pure aatma samje, koi conflict ho to unse baat kare , fir samjaye ,kamjor samaj ke force na kare..
  • 1.trust 2. Acceptance..
  • Emotional intelligence: forget & forgive
  • To forget someone is not from outside , it is also important to remove or thought sub conscious so when thoughts created in subconsious just create thought remove that , ur  pure being ,beautiful being , u don’t need that thought ..
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About rahul23134654

Hi, I am Rahul Meha , B.E. in (I.T.)
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2 Responses to brahma kumaris lectures

  1. Amit Shah says:

    Mr. Rahul,

    Wonderful work, Apriciate for your hardworking. I was finding this since long time, and finally achieving this group on topic. Pl. keep doing this seva with more interesting (meaningful) manner.

    Om Shanti,
    Amit Shah – USA Ph. 423 443 7639 perk_kalol@yahoo.com

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